Friday, October 21, 2011

I Won't Settle For Less.

This is my personal list of traits I came up with for my future boyfriend/spouse.
I went through some deep questioning of myself and into some deep thought to find some of these.
I guess i've thought about it before, but on a more "surface" level.
So, here is my list :) :

  • He needs to be so enveloped in God that I have to go through God to get to him.
  • Likes to notice little things and enjoyes them.
  • Loves to laugh.
  • Knows when to be serious and when to be funny.
  • Simple-ish lol
  • Comfortable with himself.
  • Will fight for me.
  • Expressive. (at least a lil)
  • Clean.
  • Needs to know how to LISTEN!
  • Not afraid of hard work.
  • Has at least a temporary goal for life/job.
  • HONEST.
  • Thoughtful.
  • Athletic.
  • Thinks before he speaks or does.
  • Loves his family.
  • Does not take offense easily.
  • Strong; emotionally and physically.
  • Awesomely random. :))
  • Would put God before me always.
  • Optimistic.
  • Laid back.
  • Likes to try to make everyday things fun.
  • Is dependant on God before anything/one else.
  • Can stand up to me. <----------Hahahahahahahaha!!!
  • Not fearful.
  • Soft hearted.
  • Wise.
  • Discerning.
  • Affectionate.
  • Needs to be the one God has held for me, can't be anyone else!!!
  • Does not try to be perfect.
  • Needs to CARE!
  • Needs to be PURE!
  • Loves kids!
  • CREATIVE.
  • Does not sugar coat everything.
Well, there's a lil piece of my heart for you. :) I wonder a lot who this mystery man is. Have I met him? Will he be someone I least expect now? When will I know it's him?
It's been a while since i've looked so deep inside of me & have let myself just be honest without scolding myself when I point out something I think my be impossible. I let myself truly dream.

Truly dreaming is when you don't give yourself boundaries and you just let yourself imagine in pure hopefullness. I've got to let myself do that more often. *dreamy sigh* :)

                         One of the girls...............
                                        Taylyr <33

1 comment:

  1. Man, this is ironic. I just made a list for myself and my future husband a few days ago! It included a few similarities to yours, like strong believer in Christ, listener, etc,and I felt pretty accomplished afterwards. I used my "list" to test guys in my life right now--none of them got even close. :)
    I really liked your "Puts God before me" one...

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